Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Thank you God for air conditioning


We had another restful sleep, although George might beg to differ. We have been fighting over the air conditioning in the room. I am hot and he is cold. Glad to see nothing has changed! Dr. Olson came to see me today and said that I am looking really good. I was able to get my IV out (cath taken out yesterday) and finally a shower and real food. A new thing is LOTS of swelling in my legs and feet. It hurts for me to stand with my feet being so swollen. I feel like I could take a needle and pop them. The dr. says I must walk so yesterday and today I have been walkng the halls like crazy.


I was told the heat index is 105 today and there has been some flooding in Pomeroy due to the tornado and the heavy rain that came with it.



Visitors today were: Tera Peterson, Brittany Bush, Hope Bickmeier and dad.

Busy day

Today we had all sorts of visitors and phone calls. Those who visited were:


Nikki Jones



Kim Jackson



Sandi Buhl

Stan, Penny and Jake Lenz

Also visiting us today were Alissa King, Stacy Johnson and my mom. We received phone calls from Linda Zehr, Tera Peterson and Chris & Amy Garber.

Today was quite the day to remember as when Stacy Johnson (co-worker and friend) came to visit the tornado sirens went off and we were loaded up on an elevator to the basement. I was pushing my IV cart with my catheter and George was pushing Melora in the baby bed. They put us in a doctor's office on the first floor. Stacy stayed and talked to us during this time. While we were down there the nurses came to serve supper. Unfortunately, I was still on a liquid diet. Of course the nurse had to rub it in as they had an extra plate of food and offered it to George. How dare you give him real food, he didn't just have a baby! haha While he was eating his chicken nuggets, I was drinking my chicken broth. Yuck!

Stacy left after the nurses gave us the all clear and soon Sandi Buhl arrived. She had been stuck downstairs in another area during the tornado warning. Once Sandi left Penny, Stan and Jake came to visit. While they were visiting I was re-swaddling Melora in her blankets. Jake came over and said, "What's on her wiener?" It was so funny because he was pointing and everything but it was the security clip on her umbilical cord stump. haha He is so funny!

Monday, August 9, 2010

August 9, 2010

We arrived at the hospital at 7am on Monday, August 9, 2010 to be induced...again! We went through the same routine as last time. I was still only dialated to a 2 and 50% efaced. The nurses put me on pitocin again and Dr. Olson attempted to break my water. She wasn't quite sure if she got it or not, only time would tell.

This time I brought a book to read, the lap top, and a tutu to work on. I wasn't going to get bored like last time. George brought a few things to work on too and also was going to leave for a bit.

We were up walking the halls again and George and I were both talking about how we wish my water would just break and things would start happening. The second we finished saying that...my water broke in the hallway! We were excited that things were finally going to start for us. The nurses continued to up my pitocin drip throughout the day. I was starting to get contractions and used the yoga ball and squats to help. George was so awesome as he would massage my back too.
Mom came to visit us during the day too. She stayed with me while George ran some errands.
By 5:45pm I was dialated to a 3 which was still not much progress but the pain of the contractions was bothering me. I received and epidural for the pain which helped me to dialate to a 4 and 70% efaced. Dr. Olson came to check on me again and said that the baby's head was beginning to mold. It was now time for a c-section. I told mom to call dad, Penny and Chris and let them all know what was happening.

I was nervous for a c-section, but I didn't care anymore. I was ready to meet our little girl. The doctors and nurses were coming in to talk to me as they preped me for surgery. I started to get the shakes but they said that was normal and soon I began to itch from the eipidural too.
They took me to the operating room and soon George would join me. He didn't want to get very close to me as he was afraid he would contaminate things so he sat 5 feet behind me! I had asked if I could have a mirror to watch and they said no but that I might be able to see the reflection in the lights. I did look and could see the reflection in the lights...until they put the curtain up. Darn it! I joked with the doctor and nurses about them getting a workout as they had to lift me to the surgery table and later asked if they had sliced me open yet. I'm pretty sure at this point they were wishing they had knocked me out as I talked the ENTIRE time! ha ha The last thing I asked the doctor was if she could take out some extra fat while she was already inside. You know, two for the price of one! But she declined all three times I asked.
As Dr. Olson was opening me up she kept saying what a big baby. Since she kept saying that I was certain that Melora would be at least 9 or 10lbs.

Melora Selase Osai was born at 9:34pm on August 9, 2010 (8/9/10) weighing 7lbs 12ozs 17 1/2 inches long.
She is perfect! I couldn't believe our little girl was finally here. We were both so excited. I was quite surprised at how white she was but George reassured me that she would get darker. The nurses took Melora to a different room to clean her up and George went with. In the meantime, my doctor was closing the incision and getting me ready to meet...my daughter.

When I finally got to the recovery room George, mom, and Penny were there taking pictures of our newest family member. It was so great to have their support on the biggest day of my life.

Meet our family



Nana meeting Melora for the first time.


Aunt Penny and Melora

Papa came to visit as fast as he could too!

It was such a long day but so rewarding. George was so proud to show off our daughter to everyone that came to see us and check in that night. We were so exhausted that we had Melora sleep in the nursery that evening and the nurses would bring her to me for feedings throughout the evenings.

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Fully cooked

George had to work this weekend so mom came to spend the weekend with me. I feel like I am being babysat, but I know that she had good intensions. She wants to be here just in case my water would break and I go in to labor. No such luck.

Sunday evening the weather got really bad. I was kinda happy mom was here as I don't like to be home alone when storms happen. We were trying to relax and watch t.v. when we lost power at 9:30pm. I thought it would be back on shortly, but boy was I wrong. It got way too hot in our house at 80 degrees. This pregnant lady was fully cooked! I was sweating up a storm and at this point there was no way I was going to get any sleep.

I was so uncomfortable that I had mom drive me around Fort Dodge just so the air conditioning in the car could help cool me down. George worked a short shift at the hospital and came home to be with me the rest of the evening and mom returned to her house. I still couldn't sleep so I went for another drive around 2:50am. George called me panicking wanting me to get home. Of course he is from Ghana and the heat doesn't bother him one bit. I came back to the house and finally at 5:15am the electricity came back on just in time for me to start getting ready for the hospital.

Friday, August 6, 2010

Back to work

Today was an interesting day. Everyone at work was quite shocked to see me there today. I kindly told them that I didn't have anything better to do and that Melora didn't want to come out just yet. My dad said that she is still working on curling her hair before she comes out. :) I worked most of the day and then decided towards the end that I was ready to call it quits. I was ready to leave work for a few weeks and the next time I return, I WILL no longer be pregnant.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Stubborn...

I had a rough time sleeping last night. How could I when I would finally meet my little girl. I got up and showered early, put on my make-up and out the door we went. I was in such a hurry that I ate only a granola bar for breakfast. A very pregnant last picture before we enter into the hospital. We arrived early to the hospital and they buzzed us in to the OB floor. It is a newer portion of the hospital and sure is beautiful. Within the first hour of arriving I was changed into a hospital gown and given a pair of aweful mesh undies to wear, had my blood drawn, seen my doctor, and hooked up to several monitors and was started on a pitocin drip. I was told that I couldn't eat or drink anything all day. GREAT! Had I known that I would have made a stop at breakfast buffet before we came. I was so hungry and all I could do was eat popsicles.

The doctor wanted me up and walking to try to bring the baby down so every hour George and I were up walking the halls. I quickly got bored back in our room but luckily had our lap top computer with to keep me busy. I was on my normal websites checking my work email, my personal email and of course facebook. It was nice to "chat" with people throughout the day.

The doctor came to check on me again around noon and then later on at 5pm. The nurses had continued to up my pitocin throughout the day and I was getting some contractions, but nothing to make a difference. When the doctor came the last time she said that she would be sending me home only to come back on Monday to try again. ARE YOU SERIOUS?!?

George and I were both crushed. We thought we would be leaving the hospital with our daughter. Of course she was coming with us, but we thought she would be in our arms rather than still in my belly. So we packed up our bags and left the hospital.

Of course on the way home I made George stop at the nearest restaurant so I could eat some real food! haha While there I sent a text message to my boss saying that I would be back to work the next day (Friday). He thought I was kidding. Oh how I wish I was!

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Due date comes...and goes

So today, August 4, 2010 is our due date. I was so hoping that our baby would have arrived by now or at least today, but no such luck. I went to work as normal and continued to receive the comments that I have been getting for the last week, "you're still here?" and "you haven't popped yet?" No folks, sorry but I have nothing better to do.

On a positive note. Our doctor is going to induce me tomorrow. We are to be at the hospital at 7:30 am. I left work early today to make yet another "last" trip to Walmart. Bought more groceries and a few things for the baby. My bags are packed and we are ready to go, but how does one sleep knowing they will get to meet their baby tomorrow?

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Preparing for the big day...

So we have been preparing for months for the birth of our daughter. It's hard to believe that she could be here so soon. We are so blessed to be at this stage in our lives. I have been trying to get things done around the house to be prepared. The house is cleaned, her bed ready, clothes washed, hospital bag packed along with a list of last minute things to grab, I even went as far as putting a plastic shower curtain under our sheet just in case my water breaks during the night. I also bough puppy pads (pads of dogs to pee on when you are training them) to sit on in the car and around the house again in case my water breaks. I am just so anxious for her to arrive. I can't help but wonder who will she look like. From the ultrasound at 20 weeks I could tell that she would have George's nose! haha but will she have my face, lips, his eyes, my hair. Praying that she gets her height from heaven above since we are both short. The anticipation is killing me! Hurry up baby!